Let's be honest: you're here because you want to dress better.
You want to look more attractive for women.
It's an issue men have struggled with for millennia.
How can clothing help you do this?
Well it's no secret women love a tall, strong and masculine man.
Clothing can play with your proportions.
It can surround you with powerful mental associations of masculinity.
Here are ten wardrobe items that boost your sex appeal.
You probably already have some of these items in your closet. Read on to find out!
#1 ‘Man Lingerie' AKA The Suit
It's well-known that women in lingerie look incredible. Lingerie is designed with scientific precision to make guys go “woah“.
Want to make women feel the same way? Wear a suit. Here's how it works:
A suit jacket's lapel adds width to your chest. The padding and structure in the top of the jacket build up your shoulders. Meanwhile, the bottom of a suit jacket is deliberately cut closer to your body to give you a tailored waist. Combine all of this together and your torso is given a strong V-shape: the idealized broad-shouldered silhouette of an athlete. What woman doesn't love an Adonis-like physique on a man?
Suit trousers are pleated to give your thighs room BUT also create a line running up your leg that connects to the vertical seams in a suit jacket. This makes it easier for women to run their eyes up your body to your face. The uniform color and design of a suit hides the minor imbalances everyone's body has and provides the symmetry human eyes crave. In essence, you appear taller and better-looking.
Knowing all this, why would you not wear a suit?
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#2 Medieval Armour AKA The Leather Jacket
It's no secret women love a man in a leather jacket. Perfect for more casual occasions, this classic jacket option oozes classic masculine style and sex appeal. Why does a leather jacket make a man more attractive?
To wear leather is to wear a dead animal's skin. It speaks on a primal level to your skills as a hunter. You are a warrior women can depend on to keep them safe.
Many leather jackets also feature subtle padding to boost your shoulders and upper arms similar to a suit jacket. Extra protection also makes you look like an even tougher fighter than you already are, building on the warrior image.
Most people recognize that leather jackets are for tough guys. An often underappreciated point though is that a leather jacket also highlights a man's big, strong hands – something women definitely look for. Leather jackets do this by having slightly longer sleeves that cover up more of your wrist. Technically these are to cover your arms when holding your arms out straight holding a motorcycle's handlebars. The human eye is drawn to exposed skin though so hiding your wrist puts your hands better on display.
#3 Platform Shoes AKA Boots
You might not think of boots this way but it is essentially what boots are. Think about it, boots have heels that can give you as much as an extra inch!
It's no secret women love tall men. When increasing your height is as easy as slipping on a pair of boots why not take advantage of it?
There are plenty of options out there from dress boots and Chelsea boots all the way through to heritage work boots and military-style boots. What boot style you choose will depend on your personal sense of style. It is always worth wearing boots of some kind though when the situation allows.
You should also keep in mind that leather boots make a man more attractive by having some of the same tough-guy associations as a leather jacket.
#4 A Frame For Your Face AKA The Shirt Collar
A smart shirt with a collar. You might think smart shirts are sexless items. You wear them because you have to, not because you want to. So what is a men's shirt collar for, where is the sex appeal?
The reason is a collar widens up your neck. It makes you look more muscular.
Collars also balance and frame your face, drawing her eyes to your eyes.
Collared shirts are also a step up in formality from other men's shirt options. If all the guys around you are wearing T-shirts then you will instantly catch a woman's eye by looking more put-together.
Gents, even the most casual of button-down shirts makes men more attractive than a T-shirt. I suggest wearing one whenever possible.
#5 Your Grandfather's T-Shirt AKA The Henley
Sometimes a collared shirt is too formal. Maybe you need to step things down a notch for visiting a casual bar or a backyard BBQ. That shouldn't mean you need to step down your attractiveness though.
In these situations, opt for a Henley: a soft, collarless shirt with a short buttoned placket.
Those humble buttons on the front of a men's Henley top create a flattering V-shape if you leave a few unbuttoned. Remember what we said about the suit giving you an Adonis-like V-shaped torso? The same effect is created on a smaller scale here.
A Henley draws a woman's eye to the illusion of a built-up chest and a trimmer waist, the same shape as the skin this shirt exposes.
Even a man's chest that hasn't seen the gym in ten years will look better when framed with a great-fitting henley. Take advantage of this shirt whenever a collared shirt is a step too far.
#6 The ‘V' AKA The V-neck T-shirt
What if even a Henley is too smart? Maybe you're working out at the gym or in another casual scenario. How can you still up your attractiveness and look good casually?
A V-neck T-shirt is what will give you a similar look to a henley at a lower level of formality. The ‘V' still works to emphasize your chest and does it better than the standard rounded crew neck.
Choose a fitted T-shirt in a solid shade of black for a trim silhouette. Pair this with some dark-colored jeans or chinos and you are good to go.
#7 Metal & Glass AKA Sunglasses
Eyes are the window to the soul. They tell women what you are thinking. Why make it that easy for them?
Create an attractive air of mystery by using sunglasses to hide one of the most important parts of your facial expression.
Think of it as subtly playing hard to get. Let this draw a woman in and get talking with her. Take the sunglasses off later in the conversation to avoid her remembering you as ‘the guy who wore shades all day'.
Sunglasses also create symmetry in your face just as a suit does for your body.
The reality is everyone has a very slightly unbalanced face yet the human eye is attracted to symmetry. Sunglasses give the human eye what it craves by providing an identical look on both sides of your face in a way that even the best-looking guy's face will never do.
Everyone's face is different and there are over a dozen mainstream sunglasses styles so click here to discover how to buy the right sunglasses for your face shape.
#8 A Sweet Or Fresh Smell AKA Fragrances
Maybe I'm cheating here because most guys keep their colognes in the bathroom. The best place for them is somewhere dark like your closet though.
Understand that the clothing you wear is just one part of being attractive. How you smell to a woman is just as important – if not more!
Which perfume is best to attract ladies? Here are four fragrances I recommend every man at least sample:
Grey Vetiver by Tom Ford
Grey Vetiver has a hint of…well, vetiver, but also the clean and refreshing smell of freshly cut grass.
- Top Notes: Citrus
- Heart Notes: Spices
- Base Notes: Vetiver, Woody Notes
Chrome by Azzaro
How would I summarize this fragrance? Think fresh, fruity and herbal here.
- Top Notes: Lemon, Petitgrain, Rosemary, Pineapple
- Heart Notes: Coriander, Jasmine, Cyclamen, Orris
- Base Notes: Cedarwood, Moss, Tonka Bean, Musk
Acqua Di Gio by Giorgio Armani
Refreshing aquatic notes remind women of carefree days spent by the ocean.
- Top Notes: Bergamot, Neroli, Tangerine
- Heart Notes: Ozonic Marine Notes, Sambac Jasmine Essence, Rock Rose, Persimmon Fruit
- Base Notes: Cedarwood, Patchouli, Musk
Intenso by Dolce & Gabbana
Woody notes remind women of primal men hunting in their natural habitat. This is a fragrance that perfectly combines rustic wood with elegant herbs.
- Top Notes: Basil, Aquatic Notes, Marigold, Geranium
- Heart Notes: Lavender, Absolutes of Bran and Hay, Clary Sage, Cypress
- Base Notes: Sandalwood, Musk, Ambery notes, Moepel Accord, Labdanum
#9 Jeans That Fit (Especially If YOU Are Fit!)
Next to the leather jacket, jeans are the next best item of clothing you can wear to channel tough-guy associations from past generations of men. Wear leather and denim together and you have a powerful combination!
Levi Strauss created his denim jeans for California miners. They were some of the toughest guys who have ever lived, pulling valuable ore out of the ground with nothing but the strength of their bodies and a pickaxe. This mental image is subconsciously created in a woman's mind when she sees a man in a great-fitting pair of jeans.
You can't just pick any pair of jeans off the rack though. Find the right jeans for your body type. Here's my advice for the majority of men:
- Choose a straight or slim cut with a slight taper for a fitted, tailored look.
- Make sure the jeans fit you in the waist and have the jeans hemmed to avoid them ‘stacking' up at the bottom of the legs.
- It is worth spending a little more to get jeans with a better fit and higher-quality denim that lasts longer.
- Get these jeans in a dark indigo color or black for a classic look that's also slimming.
#10 Shiny Shoes AKA Well-Cared-For Footwear
Where do you think women look first on a man?
How about his hair?
Women look at shoes first. First impressions are vital so what do you want a woman to learn about you?
If a woman sees scuffed, unpolished shoes or boots you haven't taken care of…she's less likely to believe you will take good care of a girlfriend. It's that simple, gents.
Take excellent care of your leather footwear with regular polishing and conditioning so they shine like the Chrysler building. Send the message you want to send.
How to polish dress shoes at home? Let a former Marine help get your shoes ready for the parade ground.
BONUS: Catch Her With A Shiny Lure
Watches, bracelets, rings…
They all serve to add some shine and show off your personality.
Less is more when it comes to accessorizing. Particularly in formal settings.
In casual situations though, a quality watch and a single ring or bracelet will help you stand out from the crowd and catch a woman's eye.
Gents, let me sum up by saying with great power comes great responsibility. Put several of these items together and you are guaranteed to have a winning combination on your hands. Happy hunting!
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