#1 The Thoughtful Text Women love emotional honesty, and they like men who are at ease with  their own emotions. As I said earlier, this is one of our four  fundamental wishes, so take note as you learn how to build sexual  tension through text! Thoughtful texts are really easy to compose. You could take an  interest in how her day is going, offer to cheer her up or send her a  loving text that lets her know you're thinking of her.

#2 Show Vulnerability Women also want truthfulness from you, and they're okay if you make yourself vulnerable before them.  Sharing the actual substance of your character is romantic. It builds the trust that long-term relationships have as their cornerstone. Letting her know you're imperfect invites her to share a similar vulnerability with you as an equal, and together, you can then forge a meaningful connection. Showing vulnerability can also be just as simple as telling her how much you enjoy her company.

#3 Compliment Her Women want generosity, which can mean giving your time and appreciation through words rather than gifts. But sometimes, it's not easy to know what to compliment when you are  communicating with a woman via text. After all, you can't see her, so  you can't exactly say that her dress looks nice today. Instead, compliment her intelligence or craftiness or notice  something small that she's recently changed. The devil is in the  details.

#4 Remind Her Of A Memory You Shared While you can't hold her hand or run your hand through her hair with a  text message, you can take her for a trip down memory lane. Shared  memories serve as your virtual touch. Make her laugh by recalling the time you slipped in the snow. Make her dream wistfully of last summer when you both had the beach all to yourselves.

#5 Tell Her How Much She Means to You This one is where our wish for commitment and devotion comes in.  Women don't always know how much they mean to you – especially if you  don't tell them! To really romance her like a gentleman, you should tell her how much she means to you and do so regularly. Say that you're having one of those days where you'd be so lost if  you didn't have her. Tell her that your heart just smiled when something  reminded you of her.

#6 Get Flirty How naughty is acceptable? It depends on who you're texting and how they've reacted to your  texts so far. You'll know from her responses how naughty she wants you  to be. Studies have shown that more adventurous women will respond  better to direct and overt messages. If she's given hints inviting you to turn the heat up a bit, take  advantage and go a step further. One emoticon, in particular, can be  your best friend when you want to get flirty!