Antonio Centeno The Branding Summit Transcript
Navid: Hey, whatโs up, everybody? Iโm your host, Navid Moazzez. And welcome to The Branding Summit. I am very excited to be joined by Antonio Centeno today.
He is the Founder of a very awesome blog Iโve been following for a while called Real Men Real Style. And itโs really full of so many great articles.
And I was impressed when I came across I donโt know really how. I think it was an interview maybe with David Siteman Garland, The Rise To The Top way back. And Iโve been following you like from time to time.
And then when I started my brand, I just saw like you explored with YouTube and all this kind of stuff. So, I felt completely natural to kind of invite you on here after Mark Adams whoโs kind of introduced us. [Laughter] And so, Iโm so happy to have you on The Branding Summit.
Antonio: Well, thank you very much, Navid. And it is a pleasure to be here and I look forward to adding value to your audience.
Navid: Yeah, definitely. I mean I find your story very inspiring in how you built everything from kind of ground zero. Youโre from a small town and –
Antonio: Yes.
Navid: โฆyou started actually with a business called A Tailored Suit. But now, obviously, youโre building more of the personal brand side of things that have โ that the Real Men Real Style which is your main business right now. So, can you tell us a bit โ
Antonio: Yes.
Navid: โฆthe moment when you started to focus more on your personal brand and kind of the transition?
Antonio: Sure. Well, I started off in I guess in the online world in about 2007 with my first company, A Tailored Suit. And I grew that business for quite a few years, about three years. And it was a struggle. It is something where it was in the clothing industry. I didnโt come from a clothing background before that. I โ my professional experience was in the United States Marine Corps. I spent five years there. I went and gotten my MBA at the University of Texas. And I lived abroad in Kiev, Ukraine.
But then when I returned to the states, I wanted to do something a bit different, a bit unique. And that was when I started A Tailored Suit. I went in that and if anyoneโs familiar with Andrew Warner over at Mixergy, I think I started off more of a mercenary in the sense of I saw opportunity and I really wanted to capitalize on it.
And so, started off my first online, this online custom clothier, I thought really adding value. And I was but it was hard in the sense of how do I get customers to this little website, you know, in my corner of the web. And it didnโt help that I was located in Wittenberg, Wisconsin which is just a population of just over a thousand people. So, how was I going to do it?
So, content creation in using content I feel would be a great way. Itโs not that I really figure that out. I simply read a book called the Search. And in that book, they talked about how Sergey and Larry over at Google are actually, their goal was to index the worldโs information. I figured okay, if thatโs the goal of Google, then if I provide great information, Iโll be able to get people to my little custom clothier.
And sure enough, we put out some great articles. We started getting quite a bit of traffic initially a couple hundred a day, then about a thousand a day, then 2,000 a day. I think at the height, I was getting about just over 3,000 people a day to a little custom clothier website because they were coming in for the content.
And then I started writing for another website called The Art of Manliness. Brett McKay invited me over to help him out. He just started this website. And I watched him really shoot up in terms of traffic. I think now they get like 15 million visitors or page views a month. Itโs pretty crazy the amount of traffic they get over there. But I was able to see how valuable information can really bring you in a lot of eyeballs and then you can use that. Once you got that audience, you can then start to create a business around that.
And that was became my goal whenever I started Real Men Real Style. I wanted to figure out ways that I could actually write and talk more about menโs style. And I still have the clothier around the side but it was something that I became much more interested in teaching, in educating and in helping men dress better, being able to use clothing as a tool to get what they want out of life.
And yeah, we did actually video. I found my voice on video. And since then, we created, you know, well over, you know, quite a few videos. So, I think what about 363 videos at this point on our YouTube channel. I think weโre closing in like 12 million views.
Navid: Wow.
Antonio: So, pretty cool in terms of how people find our content and how videos that โ I mean if you would have told me that I could put out a video on how to tuck in your shirt and it would get a hundred thousand views within a couple of days, it seems almost like kind of comical. But believe it or not, thereโs a lot of guys that โ theyโre always looking for better ways to do the simple things because it actually they are self-conscious about it.
And for them to be able to find a channel that gives them this information and I donโt try to be pretentious about it. Iโm not, you know, acting like Iโm better than anyone. I simply, โHey, let me give you these tactics, these little things that you can use so that when you give that presentation, when you give that speech, whenever youโre in front of the classroom that you feel better about yourself. Youโre more confident.โ And that leads to a lot of other great things.
Navid: Yeah, I mean thatโs so inspiring. You took this little small kind of business and then took it to a whole another level also with your kind of online brand. And you were selling this custom clothing but now, actually you put out a content so other people found you. And they were kind of not โ were they buyers you would say of the clothing? Or just they wanted the content?
Antonio: Yeah, that was thing is I learned very quickly that organic traffic is nice but itโs not always the best traffic. I mean there are โ it depends on what site โ I mean there are many people that would say you can get the same thing with poor quality pay-per-click traffic. However, I would say the organic or mostly coming for the content, I was capturing them in the process. I could have done a better job I think as well of capturing emails in the beginning. I wasnโt doing that. But it was very hard for me to monetize that traffic when I was also positioned myself as a bit higher and of an online custom clothier.
So, sure. I think whenever I โ and I donโt really โ I donโt take on new clients at A Tailored Suit partly because Iโm focused โ mostly because Iโm focused over at Real Men Real Style. But I mean I was selling custom shirts for $250. So, your โ this isnโt your entry point $50 custom shirts. You know, these were five times that. And so, I didnโt need to get a whole lot of customers and that was the great thing about what I was doing.
But on the other hand, I found that I really wanted to reach more people and when you have to buy 5 to $10,000 wardrobe, honestly, thatโs a very small percentage of the worldโs population. And I wanted to be able to reach a broader audience.
Navid: Oh, definitely. You can get in more to kind of the positioning side of things a bit later. But first kind of what had the most impact on the growth of your personal brand? Would you say that was kind of the YouTube videos you put out there online and that kind of skyrocketed things for you?
Antonio: That did. I would have to say that โ I mean weโve done quite a few things from info graphics to well-written contents. And the articles I was putting out especially with The Art of Manliness, I mean these were 2 to 3,000-word article. Itโs very detailed. Weโre doing a lot of research on them. But then when I started to put out videos, I really found that this is something that my audience really resonated with. And it just blew me away how they reacted to it, how they loved it. And so, that was just something once you find your winner, you just started to double down on it. And thatโs what we did with video.
Navid: Yeah. I mean thatโs โ you put out like 200 videos in 200 days I read somewhere, right? It was –
Antonio: Yeah.
Navid: โฆis that correct?
Antonio: Yeah, that is –
Navid: How was that like –
Antonio: It was โ I had to do batch processing. So, youโre probably โ your audience is probably a fan of Tim Ferriss. I know heโs talked about it but batch processing is been around a lot longer than Timโs been around. And itโs a whole idea of doing โ figuring โ I mean the โ what took the longest thing with the video wasnโt actually the filming of the video. It was actually preparing for the video.
So, I would spend time get everything, all the scripts written out of what I wanted to cover then get showered, get cleaned up, shaved, all that fun stuff. And then I would go in and shoot ten videos at a time and the great โ thatโs how I was able to put out 200 videos in 200 days.
I wasnโt scrambling and trying to shoot a video every day. I would do it maybe once a week, once every two weeks and I would have just this huge amount of content that we would then be able to edit. We also kept our editing to an absolute minimum at the beginning.
So, I feel like all my earliest videos, there almost no photos, no images in there. Itโs just simply me talking to the camera. And I think it goes to show me now I think it would be harder to – it would be harder to get in because the quality Iโve had to up my quality as a few competitors have reached the scene. But in 2000 โ you know, 2010 when we were first starting to put this stuff out there, there really wasnโt anyone talking about this.
Now โ and itโs only been four years but already the โ Iโve had to take my quality up a bit. And thatโs the great thing is that weโve been able to do that. But I learned very early that try not to edit. I donโt want to spend โ I mean people donโt need to see explosions and have all these fancy colors and all the stuff flying in. When it comes down to it, they want solid information that solves their problems.
Navid: Yes. And you knew that because you figure out your audience obviously before and they asked you questions. But for someone whoโs maybe starting out, what would you advise them to do to kind of know what they should put out? Thatโs kind of the โ you knew exactly what you would put out on YouTube obviously thatโs why you got so many hits and views to your site and to your videos. I mean every month โ they โ and youโre still getting ton of views on your YouTube channel for the first videos you put out there.
Antonio: Yeah, yeah. Weโre still getting quite a bit. I mean the content that I create is evergreen and I never run out of topics because I listen to my audience. And theyโre constantly giving me suggestions. So, if you canโt think of what to create a video on, simply go in to โ I mean look in your industry and look what people are complaining about or the problems that they have. And look at them.
You probably know your industry well enough hopefully that you can make sure the questions that youโre answering are a bit evergreen that theyโre going to be relevant with the next few years. And then just address it. Just answer it. Put it out there. And another thing that I do is I get very narrow in who โ how I focusing on the question. So, I try to be very specific. If you go to a lot of websites, I donโt mean to pick on any but letโs just say Ehouse. I remember I go these websites, and I read an article there. And I feel less intelligent after Iโve read that article than I did when I started off because Iโm like, โWhat did I just read?โ There was no โ and they wrote 500 words and there was no value there.
And so, we tried to get very specific and we realized that weโre going to cut off 95, maybe 98% of the audience but for that very specific person weโre targeting, this is exactly what we want to hear. So, weโll talk about short and stout men, how they should โ how โ what kind of a suit they should look for? Now, if youโre tall and thin, this is not applicable or is it? Because a lot of guys will listen to it and say, โYou know, oh, thatโs just some good tips.โ And then they write me and they say, โHey, now can you make one for tall and thin or something like that?โ
So, thatโs where I find when people see that you actually care and that you get very specific like that, you can โ itโs very powerful.
Navid: Yeah. You know, I completely agree and with that narrowing down on your topics and your niche obviously when youโre starting. So, I think youโve done a great job with that from the beginning but you were also โ you said that you didnโt really have a competition there but today, if someone kind of goes in to something, I think thereโs always players around. So, how do you really stand out from others and really stand out in your niche?
Antonio: Well, even though โ I mean thatโs great if thereโs competition. Anytime there is competition, that goes to show you thereโs a market there. But thereโs always a way to do it differently or to do it better. So, there is that saying youโre either first, youโre fabulous or youโre, you know, effed basically.
Navid: Yeah. [Laughter]
Antonio: I would say, you know, I was pretty fortunate โ I wouldnโt say fortune because I put in a heck of a lot of work before. But I saw that there wasnโt a whole lot of great video content. There was one guy he was putting out โ and he already had about 4 million views and I could have said, โWell, this guy is doing it.โ But you know what? Honestly, it made me a little bit upset because I saw him when he only had like a million or two million views and then I saw him when he had 3 million, 4 million.
And my wife, she was just like, โWell, you just need to get out there and start filming. Youโre getting upset about this. Why donโt you do something about it?โ And so, I did. And now, lo and behold, the guyโs name โ his name is Aaron Marino. Heโs now a great friend and weโre actually running a business together.
Navid: Wow.
Antonio: Weโre going to do a live event together that only happened because we both โ now, we can call each other and commiserate about some of the problems that only we know about and we face as content creators on YouTube in the menโs style arena. So, weโve โ you know, itโs one of those cool things that A) when you start to put out and create content, you actually become friends with those that are already doing it as well. And you start to, you know, brief [0:13:22] [Phonetic] things together.
Navid: Yeah, I have to move back a little bit because you moved in to a very interesting kind of niche with kind of this menโs style. And you come from a very small town. So, how โ I mean why did you pick that specific niche? I mean I โ I think itโs a great niche if you can really โ you mean you position yourself well. You stand out there. Youโre like have an amazing business today. But from the very beginning and why did you move in there like really found this kind of now is a passion of yours of course?
Antonio: You know, it wasnโt something that I initially start off and I knew I was going to get in to that direction. I would say menโs style in fashion and clothing, all that stuff is cool. I definitely seemed to know a lot about it because I think about it every day. Iโm diving in to the content. I know a lot of people in the industry.
But what I really get excited is when I focus on helping men become better men and I can use my business to do good. And to me, itโs about helping men use clothing to get what they want out of life. And itโs funny, I just got off the call with a gentleman. He runs โ what was the name of the website? Itโs Triton โ Triton Industry or Tricon โ you know, Triton โ in any case, heโs a – [Laughter] heโs a Navy SEAL running a security business down in Austin, Texas. And basically they trained first responders and military on weapons and tactics and things like that. I like to be able to go in to there and to offer value.
Now, Iโm a former marine. So, it is something that I can speak the language. But what I love, you know, and what brings all of this together is that we can talk about really about โ if anyone becomes, you know, Delta Force, Navy SEAL, any special, you know, a royal marine, anyone becomes one of these higher end special forces or anything in any military groups, they pay attention to the details.
They focus on higher โ theyโre usually trying to serve a higher purpose. And when I was in Iraq and we would work with security forces. There was always very interesting that even though we technically at some point, you know, you got almost [0:15:27] [Inaudible] enemies, but then we came together. And now, you know, with the current situation, itโs just crazy.
But the point is that a lot of these people are drawn to a higher server โ a higher โ serving a higher purpose. And when youโre around people like that whether theyโd be missionaries, whether theyโd be, you know, military personnel, whether theyโd be a business people, itโs that shared belief that it does make a difference. Those little details matter and thatโs what I get excited about when โ
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆIโm working with my company is being able to help guys show that and be able to send that message through a clothing which is just one aspect.
Navid: Yeah, I mean thatโs fantastic. But what would you say to someone that will go in maybe to sign on not like to the style or helping men but to something maybe a little bit more narrow like that and theyโre not โ theyโre unsure if that will be profitable for them or there might be a lot of people in there. So, how they can they can hone in on their expertise and really own that niche?
Antonio: Okay. So, the question is, you know, theyโre hesitant because itโs โ they donโt think it profitable enough.
Navid: Yeah. Kind of theyโre โ maybe they have like for example you invented menโs style and thereโs like a lot of people letโs say like why do you go in to that arena building an online business? Theyโre just a bunch of blogger showing kind of their street style and you know, this kind of stuff.
You know, thereโs people โ I mean Iโve followed some blogs from my country here and they have nothing like that like you have like in depth articles. You can really learn something. But well, some people just post photos which is great sometimes but might not really lead to a very profitable business unless you get picked off somehow.
Antonio: Well, you know, the fashion industry isnโt โ itโs a huge โ and weโre talking, you know, multi, multi-billion dollar business. And there are clothing companies that are I mean just making a killing in โ I mean the fashion industry is huge. So, right there we know that there is money that we make.
Navid: For sure.
Antonio: However, you know, it depends on what your goals are. I mean if youโre all about just the money and the profit, I mean go in to an investment bank.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: I mean go to Wall Street. Thatโs where itโs at. Go to, you know, be close to the money. And believe me, they need, you know, more people, you know, I guess they need more wolves there, you know – [Laughter]
Navid: [Laughter]
Antonio: …if thatโs what your deal is. Go become โ but I think most of us online, what we enjoy about it is the freedom. We enjoy the ability to be able to create something from basically nothing and see it scale up and see it really become something amazing.
So, to me, I would challenge their way of thinking. I mean if itโs an industry that you know that there is money to be made, I mean right now weโre just at the tip of the iceberg. And I look at so many fashion houses, so many online brands that do not have a good presence and canโt figure it out. And there are still a decade I think from actually making a big splash online.
So, I donโt want to be โ I mean I definitely believe in short term profits. However, you know, if itโs something that I would have to, you know, have you seen the โ I mean I get approached by all these companies that are doing basically vaping –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆor cigarette, you know, that kind of like cigarette stuff, honestly, thatโs โ I know I could make short term money there but Iโm not going to go there because I donโt believe in it. Iโve got kids that I donโt want to see, you know, using something and I know that there are some good points to it. But when it comes down to it, I donโt want to be associated with that. And I have the freedom to not go down that path.
But I think that there are so โ so, there are just so much โ it really is to me limited thinking if you canโt figure out a way to take, you know, guys like โ well, just take Pat Flynn over at Smart Passive Income. People look at what heโs doing but really, you know, in many ways, heโs teaching people how to make money online with niches. I mean thatโs very specific and right now, you know, those guys like Bluehost is huge if you break out his โ you know, how much โ where heโs making from, itโs Bluehost, thereโs a huge percentage of that.
So, you know, does that say that everyone needs to go and be promoting, you know, servers and you know, hosting companies? No, you know, to me thatโs just โ theyโre just really good right now at actually providing a monetary return for people that recommend them.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: Clothing companies are horrible at it. And I mean theyโre getting better but weโre โ itโs not like weโre moving towards a point which clothing companies are going to get worst. Theyโre going to get better and more sophisticated and eventually, theyโll realize that this is one of their best ways. And as the industry moves there, I want to already have established the beachhead.
So, you know, thatโs where I see โ I mean when it comes down to it, I want to have emails and have a strong audience because whether or not I want to sell them clothing or guess what, I can sell my audience. If they want to get a mortgage on a house, if they want to decide what bank to go with. Recently at Real Men Real Style, Iโve branched out. So, now weโre talking about business skills and living because Iโm very aware that those other areas are more profitable.
However, the audiences in the email lists that I build up and I pay a lot less for, if you were to go try to acquire that person and youโre simply focused on the banking, you know, people are getting to the banking or the finance niche and they try to blog or create content there. Itโs very competitive and itโs very hard to get your foot in the door. And itโs very hard even to pay for traffic because youโre competing against banks that have all the money.
In my sphere, there is not that competition thatโs why I love it, itโs I can build and I can mass a huge audience of following and build that trust. So, a decade from now when theyโre looking to purchase an automobile, well, guess what, Iโll be able to recommend one to them. And by then, the automobile companies hopefully will be a little bit farther along and theyโll have a great affiliate system set up where literally everyone that I referred to, you know, to go purchase a car, Iโm getting a 2 to $3,000 commission.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: So, itโs also about looking at the big picture and building up an audience and realizing that if you build it up with the right way, the same way you said youโve been following me for years, you know, why would you stop following me –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆfive years from now.
Navid: No, exactly. And I mean even before I got in to online business I knew about your site because I was interested in obviously, you know, style and stuff like that. I followed you. So, thatโs kind of how I got in to you. And now, you do a lot of stuff and it makes sense because people who maybe buy in to style or maybe even dating and stuff like that, theyโre also want to improve the other areas of life like social โ other social areas like networking. They want to become maybe an entrepreneur or stuff like that. And thatโs good [Laughter] to focus on it as well.
But you mentioned something really important here and thatโs the audience and thatโs what you build there โ have been building from the very beginning. So, whatโs working right now when it comes kind of through the audience building for you and all the content you put out there.
Antonio: Well, you know, Iโve never really focused on what works right now. I kind of look at it like black hat SEO in the –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆsame I guess for fashion. Itโs fleeting. It changes. And to be honest, I donโt have โ I mean you can get some big wins and there are people that โ I think if the tip of the spear, those guys that are right out there actually making things happen, they can definitely โ theyโre going to get a lot of short term wins but then theyโre going to have to reinvent themselves and go someplace else. I just think it takes a lot of energy.
So, I focus on what I think has worked for thousands of years which is building trust and building relationships. So, I do some things which arenโt super popular. I actually send emails out and I ask people to respond to me. Now, I donโt respond to every single person. I donโt. I have VAs that actually respond to everybody.
Now, they do this and theyโve been trained because I find that most people when theyโre responding to me, theyโre asking questions that Iโve already answered, videos that Iโve already created or theyโre asking me something that to be honest, Iโm probably not going to create something for quite a while. But I will add it to my list because Iโm constantly building out databases.
Now, those three things I just told you, I donโt have to do it. I actually have people that Iโve trained up that can go through my email and they do a much better job because there was a time when I wasnโt answering any emails from random people just because I didnโt have the time. I had to focus on my business and make money. And that was a tough spot because I was working crazy hours trying to answer. I felt really bad that I wasnโt responding to people.
Now, anyone that emails me, every single person gets a response. And thatโs because weโve got systems in place. Now, technically, I donโt hit the send button but I did craft that draft email. I did write the article that weโre referring them to and at the end of the day, they donโt really care. You know what they care? That I help maybe solve their problem, help put them in a better position.
And by passing on that goodwill, Iโm creating trust. Iโm building a relationship. And I can then leverage that, you know, that right there is a timeless โ I can then turn that into a sale. I can turn that into an affiliate link. I can turn that in just a recommendation. I can turn that โ you know, I just referred โ I donโt know.
I think I โ bottom line, I just got 5,000 people on his list because I referred my audience to him and he wrote a book about how to dress taller. Heโs a shorter guy and he writes for short men on how to dress, you know.
And so, I loved it because I was able to give value to my audience. They love the e-book. He was able to get value because I got – basically triple the size of his email list.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: And for me, it was a win because I actually got to send out an email that day that people loved.
Navid: Very โ thatโs interested. So, basically you respond โ I mean with the help of your VAs, you respond to emails that the audience send to you since you have built up the database of people say you have an email list and they respond to kind of your request and they โ when you have a question in there or maybe what theyโre struggling with and so on. Is that correct?
Antonio: Yes.
Navid: Okay.
Antonio: Yeah. So, weโre constantly, you know, trying to figure out and build out systems so that I can scale in the โ and I use Infusionsoft that helps quite a bit with being able to scale individualism which is something that I think Jermaine Griggs has talked about. Heโs actually taking Google search and heโs a very interesting gentleman that runs the website Hear and Play. And heโs a big Infusionsoft speaker.
But that right there, when you can start to scale individualism and you actually give people exactly what they want and you start to speak to them on a more personal term is a very powerful thing. Because if you are out looking for two products, one product costs $50 but itโs written for everyone in the world and it sort of solves your problem versus another one which costs twice as much but this is written very particular to your issues, you know, like how to dress for an interview if you are a young lawyer in Europe –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆversus another one is, you know, how to dress for an interview.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: This one costs 10 bucks. The one for the young lawyer costs $20. Well, which one are you going to buy if youโre a young lawyer in Europe looking to dress for interviews? Youโre going to โ it does โ I mean itโs a โ youโre โ even though theyโre charging a 100% premium over here, youโre happy to pay it because it addresses your specific needs even if 90% of the content in here is the same as over here.
Navid: So, I mean I donโt know if you would like to share numbers of your email list but anyway, from the beginning like how did you build it up to this size that itโs now that your audience is so big that you get responses and theyโre highly engaged and so on?
Antonio: So, my email list is just under a hundred thousand. And I would say we built it up I mean one at a time. I know that sounds really simple but celebrate when you get 10 people on your email list. Celebrate when you get a hundred people on your email list. Celebrate when you get a thousand. And it is something, you know, thatโs so โ having great opt-ins, I am a big fan of pop-ups. I remember reading I think it was Corbin โ you know, the guys over at Fizzle.
Navid: Corbett Barr.
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Antonio: Yeah, yeah, Corbett. And you know, Iโve met all of those guys. Great people. Really like what theyโre doing. You know, Chase and you know, gosh –
Navid: Caleb.
Antonio: Caleb.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: Caleb is going to kill me. Iโm just hanging out –
Navid: [Laughter]
Antonio: โฆI just had a beer with him in San Diego. And โ but, you know, those guys are putting out some great stuff but I remember on one of โ maybe it was โ gosh, what is Corbettโs website? His own personal website. Do you know which one Iโm talking about โ
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Navid: The first one, yeah.
Antonio: Before Fizzle –
Navid: It was โ
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Antonio: Yeah.
Navid: โฆThink Traffic.
Antonio: Think Traffic.
Navid: Uh huh.
Antonio: So, I remember on Think Traffic they talked about this. And then some guy on the comment said that he hated pop-ups like the burning surface of the sun or something like that. It was like so intense. I remember just thinking, you know, every โ because 95% of people there hated pop-ups. But when I use pop-ups, I doubled the size of my opt-in rate.
And I donโt care if you hate it. You know, if Iโm โ you โ do you really hate pop-ups if all of a sudden, it pops up there and it gives you โ I mean theyโre giving you a great opt-in, you know, a great lead magnet –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆand it actually solves your problem? I mean how can you hate this pop-up for just trying to remind you and be top of mind?
So, I think itโs really important that we remember we are not our audience. And itโs important with peopleโs limited attention spans to give them as many options as possible to take action and give you their email so that you can better help them.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: So, that was one โ you know, we really did focusing on increasing the percentage of people that this is our website and the more of them that opt-in. So, having an irresistible lead magnet and โ so that helped a lot. And also, making it so that there is multiple areas that we can, you know, we can opt-in. We have opt-ins at the bottom of the website, side of the website, on the homepage and we use the light box. I had experimented with many other things and I still continue experimenting because it does change.
So, we also work on getting in front of other peopleโs audiences. A number of people have talked about this. This is one of the best ways, probably one of the best audiences that I always seem to get in front of is Brettโs over at The Art of Manliness. And thatโs because I do a guest post for him every single month. By doing that, I donโt, you know, I guess I could use a few other โ there is some other tactics – LeadPages has whatโs called lead boxes –
Navid: Oh, yeah.
Antonio: โฆand thatโs where they can actually click. And I can be on somebody elseโs website, be setting up a pop-up. Iโve received permission to do this but I just havenโt implemented it. But figuring out and getting in front of other peopleโs audiences and giving them something of value, So again, itโs a win-win situation is always something to basically shoot up numbers.
Iโve gotten, you know, thousands of people in a single day from something like that. But then itโs also about closing the backend of the bucket. So, a lot of the times, youโll get people that will unsubscribed. Thatโs a natural process and in fact, I want people off my email list who donโt want to be there, who donโt want to hear from me.
You know, people write me back and theyโll say, โHey, you know, can you just send me one email a month?โ And I mean I appreciate that and eventually, Iโll have systems in place where maybe I got a list that I only email once a month. But right now, Iโm trying to do at least a couple of times a week. I am studying up systems of where you can actually if you want more emails, I can do that. Or if you want less, weโre trying to work that right now. But Iโm not, you know, the biggest company in the world.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: But I do try to email my list at least two times a week so it doesnโt go stale. If you think youโre doing your list a favor by not emailing them, big mistake because theyโre going to forget who you are. And when you do email them, theyโre going to wonder who in the world is this person, unsubscribed. And you may have the cure to cancer in that email and theyโre going to miss it.
Navid: Yeah. I mean thatโs a really great advice. Actually, a lot of people they think that they should wait a little bit. They get so many emails. But if you have something really great to offer, maybe a free guide you just put together, really great interview, whatever that would be, I mean why not just email them. Shoot them an email when you have something to say.
And so, I mean Iโve had number of people do say to me, โI mean I donโt email my list until maybe, you know, every other week or every month or something like that.โ Thatโs too long. So, I like that you said that actually, yeah.
Antonio: Yeah. I mean but make sure you have something to say. I would recommend there is a difference between auto-responder and in a sense, broadcast emails. I send out too many broadcast emails. You need to probably work on your auto-responder series. Iโm waiting for somebody to actually create a business that is nothing but creating amazing auto-responders for people.
Because to me, itโs just โ it is so valuable to our business but so many of us just donโt have time and we also want it done right. I want them to follow best practices, yada yada yada. I mean there probably is some business out there that does that but yeah, being โ itโs โ but when you create a great auto-respond โ my wife has one with her website, Bilingual Kids Rock. And this auto-responder goes on for, I donโt know, probably four months, five months. She doesnโt โ but email them like one but once or twice a month. Or no, she emails them about two to three times a month.
So, there are some big periods. But itโs always something of value and whatโs cool โ the reason she did that is she just doesnโt have โ sheโs raising three kids and –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆshe doesnโt always have time to go in there and check. But itโs something that sheโs constantly touching base with them. So, it doesnโt have to be โ you donโt have to email your list every single day. Iโve got friends that do that and that works for some people. However, you know, youโve got to find what works for you.
And the easiest way to do is simply just create that one auto-responder series and then boom. You can walk โ I think that best Iโve ever heard Chris Guillebeau from what I understand has one thatโs like 300 โ literally, itโs one every day for a full year. I mean thatโs pretty amazing.
Navid: Yeah. I think โ yeah, is that a free one? Or is that as a course that goes on also for like 3 โ for about a year? But thatโs amazing.
Antonio: Iโm not โ yeah. And you think of it, you create one time, you let it run.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: And youโre just emailing people. And Iโve had some that are โ within โ the ones I have like that that are literally like 90 sections long are for people that take my courses. And I got those set up for my course and they actually interact with a private website.
So, thatโs a whole โ thatโs one of my ways I monetize probably โ actually more than half of my revenue comes from products Iโve created, information products, courses, books, all of those, you know, of various revenue streams like that. And I always try to โ I find that getting those emails that are very value add and relevant for me is a great way to run a course.
Navid: Okay, thatโs great. So, what was your kind of opt-in on your site called? Like so that irresistible opt-in offer that you have and people just sign up?
Antonio: Well, Iโve got a 47-page e-book and on menโs style called The 7 Deadly Sins of Style. So, I did invent that. You know, theyโre supposedly were what, 7 deadly sins there. So, itโs a little bit catchy and people are curious.
I also use the negative – you know, the negative approach. Studies have shown that using the negative approach, youโll get more people โ people are more curious if theyโre going to lose something, they would react to it stronger than if theyโre going to gain something. So, you may offer โ you know, I could offer the 7 tips to dressing better. Itโs not going to do as well as the 7 mistakes youโre probably making.
Navid: Okay. Thatโs great. So, just to clarify that you are โ where are you getting the most traffic right now to your website? Is that from โ I mean maybe your email list right now, Google, or is it maybe –
Antonio: Well, itโs going to be Google organic. Thatโs –
Navid: Okay.
Antonio: โฆwhere โ right now, weโve done โ we probably have 1200 articles on Real Men Real Style. Weโve got just tons of great solid content.
And this stuff gets picked up, brings me a lot of traffic. Thatโs not to say no, I get โ itโs my bet โ thatโs not my best traffic. The best traffic I get is from YouTube in terms of qualified leads that come to my email opt-in page and give me their email and then turning to being a buyer, definitely YouTube.
Navid: Okay. And then guest posting a little bit as well. If you guest post for The Art of Manliness, obviously, you get some traffic from there.
Antonio: And Iโve been guest posting every month with The Art of Manliness for, I donโt know, 7 years.
Navid: Wow.
Antonio: So, yes. So, weโve got, you know, all โ weโre like what, thatโs 70 to 80 articles over there.
Navid: [Laughter]
Antonio: So, yes. So, I do get –
Navid: Thatโs some great backlinks. [Laughter]
Antonio: Yeah, yeah. And itโs โ but itโs being consistent. Itโs providing value. I donโt charge for it, you know. And Iโve written some great content. I mean heโs offered to pay me but itโs really โ I โ that would to me defeat like I do it because I truly believe in his mission. And thatโs another thing. Make sure that when youโre choosing opportunities your people to guest post with, really make sure that you can say hell, yeah to it.
Not just, โOh, that seems like a good opportunity.โ But you want to be able say, โHell, yeah.โ You want to be really excited about, you know, who youโre going to be working with.
Navid: Yeah. And what would you say like you came from a very small town and building all these relationships online which is very important to building a successful brand and business. Was that ever a struggle for you? Or did that came kind of naturally for you in the beginning too?
Antonio: Well, we connect with people in various ways. So, most people wanted to just simply send an email and then get this person to bend over backwards over them and dedicate hours to promoting them and all of other stuff. But oftentimes, one thing I find a secret weapon is not the iPhone here but actually just simply the telephone. Calling people, having a personal connection and learning about them, actually being interested in them and their story and taking a personal interest in them and setting up the time to make that happen.
Now, it is something that Iโm pretty selective about who I interview with, who I talk with, who I spend time with because thatโs a very limited resource. But it is something that I feel is important. Another thing, go to live events. This year, I went to every month for the first six months this year, I was going to a live event and interacting with other human being. Shaking hands, meeting them in person, getting them and building โ improving the strength of that connection.
Itโs so much easier to build a connection even if someone is giving a keynote speak. You can wait there in line and thereโs โ you maybe the tenth person in line but I can tell you that if theyโre that hard to reach, that itโs โ youโre going to have a much bigger impact than sending an email.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: And a lot of people, you know, they just think that the email is not the only path. Twitter actually is a pretty good way. I use Twitter not to really build traffic or send, you know, to send traffic or anything but I find it โ itโs a great way to get around gatekeepers and be able to interact and actually talk with real people.
Navid: I completely agree. Twitter is great to actually build this kind of initial contact with someone.
Antonio: Exactly.
Navid: Maybe getting on their radar or maybe retweeting their content or something like that. Thatโs what I primarily use Twitter for as well. Not really for โ itโs not that โ sometimes you can get traffic if you have a lot of people in your post but mostly just maybe say, โHi, great post,โ or whatever that would be. And just get on their radar.
Antonio: Yeah. Itโs โ you know, youโve got to find the path of least resistance. Usually people that have a lot to offer are setting up barriers around themselves. I know Iโve had to set up barriers. And you want to find a way to be able to break through that barrier and be able to, you know, add value.
So, if youโre looking to reach out to somebody, itโs not about you. Itโs about how you can possibly add value to them. And donโt just say, โHow can I help you?โ Itโs more of, โHey, I see that youโre doing this and that you definitely could be doing it better.โ You know, I was just talking with my friend, Tom Morkes over at Insurgent Publishing. Now, heโs working with John Dumas, me and him. Weโre all partners on a website called High Speed Low Drag. We help military veterans transition out of the service.
Now, normally โ and Tom will be the first one to say that John is a little bit further ahead. If your audience isnโt familiar with John Dumas over at the Entrepreneur On Fire –
Navid: Heโs part of the summit too. So, yeah.
Antonio: Okay. Yeah, heโs kicking butt doing amazing things. And โ but the thing with John is that heโs setting up a lot of barriers. And one of those barriers, you know, if you want his time, you usually need to be part of fire nation which isnโt, you know, the cheapest program to be a part of. Or youโve got โ youโve got โ youโve really got to get an introduction to him now because he get so many people want his time.
However, Tom is able to pull when he realizes that John is a vet and a former army officer as well. So, Tom is a former army officer, John is a former army officer, they connect. Then letโs do something together. We all want to help veterans. Well, letโs actually form this company. And Tom is now the CEO of the company. We all are equal partners on it. But when it comes down it, John and I are both really busy with our main businesses. So, Tom is taking the lead in this business.
And now has direct access with John whenever he needs him in order to make things happen. And thatโs how you build I think a solid relationship with somebody as you work with them on a project which is their passion. And they donโt necessarily have time for. Iโve talked with Michael Stelzner over at Social Media Examiner.
Normally, I donโt think he has a lot of time for people but instantly I got Wisconsin in common with him. And I realized heโs trying to be a better dad. Iโm trying to be a better dad. Letโs talk about that because thatโs a passion for him –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆand something that not a lot of people latch on to. And in a sense, we were able to have a meaningful conversation at blog world specifically about that and what heโs working on with some of his projects.
Navid: Yeah. Thatโs a really, really great tips actually. And really finding this common ground with someone and also, I mean collaborating with others that always work essentially if youโre coming from kind of this genuine standpoint that you really want to help them provide value. But actually something โ does โ you bring up an interesting point. You have so many projects going on creating so much content on a consistent basis.
Letโs get in to a little bit of your systems you set up for doing all of these which I think the audience would be interested in to know how โ I mean when they – moving their head a little bit in to their business, they can also reach to this point when they have VAs and so on.
Antonio: Well, you know, it all starts with your first V โ I mean first it starts with yourself.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: So, you need to โ one thing I really like and Iโve got it right in front of me is the Eisenhower Matrix. So, I have two categories at the top. Iโve got urgent, not urgent and then over on the left, Iโve got important, not important. So, what is urgent and important, I have to do and I have to do today or I have to do in the next few days.
Oftentimes, what is not urgent but important is eventually moving over to urgent and it would be great if I did that ahead of time so that I could do it right and that it didnโt actually cause stress in my life. What I โ what you need to cut off and identify and actually be truthful to yourself about is what is urgent and non-important and what is not urgent and not important and why are you doing those things.
So, in 2002, I threw out my television. I still donโt have a television as the reason being โ I mean I want to โ I want โ Iโve had people tell me I could be on a reality show. Thatโs a much โ I donโt even โ I donโt watch reality television. I have no idea really what that stuff is. I do have an idea of what it is but I donโt watch it because I donโt have time for it. As much as I want to โ as much as I love it โ as much as I love sports, I donโt have time to sit down and just watch this and to veg out.
Thatโs not โ I mean if I want to relax, Iโm spending time with my kids. Iโve got three kids, another one on the way and theyโre going to be gone in and out of the house before I know it. And Iโve only got so much time with them.
I mean really look at where youโre spending your time, look at where youโre spending your money and thatโs where your values and your priorities where at. So, for me, you know, it becomes very easy to say no to things. So, thatโs the other thing is no should become your default answer to most opportunities or projects coming your way.
Everyone wants a little bit of your time especially when you start to get good at things, when you start to be able to, you know, your business starts to hum.
Youโve got to know to be able to say no and youโve got to also have a โ you know, itโs kind of a negotiating term but whatโs it your but no, your best alternative too when you negotiate agreement. You know, so for me itโs like how much is my time where – my virtual assistants know โ I probably need to up this but for the last few years Iโve told them my time is worth 500 bucks an hour. If the problem is less than that, please do not bother me with it. You need to โ so I want to empower my team to be able to solve those problems.
So, probably your next question is, โWell, how do you get a team? How do you start working with them?โ Well, first, you start to section off things which you can hand off to somebody and that are going to offer value and youโll be able to see a return on investment. So, the first person I ever brought in to my team and I initially started at $200 a month part-time just work was actually my technician. And he was basically installing WordPress on the โ you know, he was managing my servers.
But that saved me so much time that I wasnโt having. And this is when I was using a basic HTML site back in 2008. It saved me so much time that I wasnโt having to log in and do that kind of stuff. So, once I found that, I was able to break off. I eventually expanded him to, you know, $500 a month then a thousand dollars a month.
Now, heโs my, you know, my fulltime tech โ I mean right now, weโre having website issues. And Iโm in this interview with you, he is dealing with the website. Other โ you know, itโs like things like that, Iโm happy to have off my plate because they donโt add a whole lot of value. And I need to have someone trusted, who can handle that type of stuff.
And so, every time youโre looking to bring somebody on, make sure that youโre sectioning things in your life, and youโre creating checklists of okay, I was spending a lot of time on social media.
I mean I was spending an hour a day in Facebook, an hour a day on YouTube, 20 minutes a day on Twitter. All of these things were adding up. So, if I could hire somebody and they could do all of these things right here like, then that would be worth me hiring them. And I already have the checklist of the 10 things that they would be doing. Yes, theyโre not as quick as me. Theyโre maybe not as good as me. I always โ sometimes I read the responses that my VAs given, Iโm like, โAh!โ I could have done better.
But you know what? When it came down to it and it happened, I didnโt have to spend the weekend answering YouTube comments and I got to spend it with my kids. So, you know, it starts with the one, first, organizing yourself. Creating checklists of items โ you create a โDo not do listโ.
Navid: Yup.
Antonio: I mean literally a list of things that you should not be doing. And thatโs what โ and oftentimes, itโs those things which seemed urgent but theyโre really not that important. You know, getting back to people on YouTube when it comes down to it, itโs not as important as actually closing, you know, creating more sales for my company so that I can provide a living for people. I mean as much I want to respond to people on YouTube, that is what it comes down. And my VAs, I trained them and theyโre doing a better job than I would because I just wouldnโt be doing it.
Navid: Yeah, definitely. So, you focus on whatโs your โ the best time which is probably the content creation and that stuff you take care of I guess like shooting. And you got to be in front of the camera. Youโre going to write the script probably for your videos. I mean thatโs what you do I assume still.
Antonio: Yeah.
Navid: Yes.
Antonio: Yeah, there are certain things in my company that only I can do. And by systemizing everything else, it frees me up to be able to do those things.
Navid: Yeah. Okay, thatโs great. So, letโs get in to a little bit with the โ kind of the monetary things but also the premium side because you position yourself from the beginning, a little bit as a premium brand. And especially with your first company there, A Tailored Suit. And did that translate also in to what youโre doing now with Real Men Real Style like that you have more of a premium brand in the marketplace?
Antonio: You know, I would say Iโm still โ I think of myself as more going after the everyday mandate, the regular guy. Definitely with A Tailored Suit when it came to online custom clothiers, most of them, try to compete on price.
Navid: Yes.
Antonio: And thatโs a big mistake. So, one thing I maybe do have an advantage because I did go to business school. So, I read all the boring books by Michael Porter and all those guys at Harvard. And what Michael Porter talked about in his classic book Competitive Strategy which if you havenโt read it, as a business owner or entrepreneur, you should. It was written way back in the 19 โ late 1970s or early 1980s I believe. But he talked about, you know, thereโs three ways you can compete.
You can either compete on price. You can compete with actually providing amazing service or you can offer a unique โ a position in the market which you provide in unique, you know, area. And so, Iโve always been a fan of โ I donโt want to compete on price. I just feel that thatโs unsustainable. Itโs something that you really have to be able to go towards high numbers.
And I would much โ I feel that most people forget that they can provide greater service, provide something that is perceived as service or they can provide a unique area.
And Iโd like to hit on these two. Itโs very rare. You can oftentimes focusing on one of those three. I think itโs great that if you can somehow focusing on two, and the two that I decided to focusing on, itโs not low price. Itโs going to be customer service and itโs going to be providing a unique area niche. And thatโs where if you look at a lot of my products, weโve really tried zero down.
So, one of my best books on Amazon actually is how to dress if youโre a large man. Now, for the longest time, large men were complaining that no one โ if you look at models on any โ you look at any other companies that and the models they put out there on the images, theyโre not large men. Theyโre not overweight men. Theyโre not โ I mean there are these models that of what I guess the ideal man should look like when really thatโs not reality.
So, I actually wrote a book that specifically dealt. And I remember putting it out there like blew away all the sales of all my other books because it was so specific even though it targets a small demographic. When they see that book, it actually resonated very strong with them. So, thatโs one way that weโve been able to put out.
And I also โ I could probably even niche down even more like focus specifically on consultants or lawyers. Iโm constantly doing research. So, whenever someone signs up for my email list, Iโm asking them, you know, to further identify who they are, how old they are, whatโs their profession. So, slowly just weโre constantly learning more about our audience. And by doing that, I can then start to create sales pages and products that actually narrowly laser point those type of people.
Navid: Hmm, very interesting. So, you use kind of the tool like SurveyMonkey or something like that and ask them questions in there so they fill it up –
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Antonio: I use Infusionsoft.
Navid: Ah โ
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Antonio: Infusionsoft allows me to โ so, first, I collect their email and name. This โ so, theyโre already in my system at this point. Then I send them to a page in which I ask for more information. It doesnโt matter if they fill it out or not because Iโm already going to put them in the email sequence –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆbut 70 to 80% of people still fill this out even though they donโt have to. And when they tell me this information, then I can actually take that and create a sales page.
See, my products to be honest, one of my main flagship product, A Manโs Guide to Style, that right there and it can meet the needs of a wide variety of men. But my sales page for that currently right now is very general.
So, my goal is if you go through my funnel and if you identify yourself as a student whoโs 22 years of age, I want to actually send you to a sales page which identifies not โ Iโm not going to get specific solely on your age but I would say, you know, maybe that you โ hey, are you a young man who just graduated from school or about to graduate? When I start off that way, itโs like, well, yeah, that is me you know.
And so, Iโm able to craft the sales page to be able to identify his specific problems because when you tell somebody their problems in more detail than what they can describe their own problem, theyโre like, well, they assume you have the answer.
Navid: Yeah, I mean thatโs an amazing sales page then – they feel so compel to just purchase. And I mean obviously โ I mean Infusionsoft is great. I have some friends that use this as well. And you can do pretty much everything in their membership sites and all that.
But the reason why I mention SurveyMonkey is because probably as for starters, itโs very easy to set up. If you use AWeber which you can maybe do the service right in there, you can still use SurveyMonkey and send them there inside of your email. So, thatโs –
Antonio: Yeah.
Navid: โฆjust to clarify.
Antonio: No, no. SurveyMonkey, I mean even thinking about this –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆI mean what weโre talking about here a little bit more advanced –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆtechniques. I mean if youโre not collecting emails, start collecting emails now which many people are not doing. Theyโre not using pop-ups or anything like that or not –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆproviding some great, you know, great lead magnet. So, get that first. But these are things as you start to get 10 opt-ins a day, 20 opt-ins a day, then you want to be thinking, okay, this is going โ itโs not going to get smaller. How can I better segment the list to be able to scale individualism? Infusionsoft is cool but there are other options out there. ONTRAPORT is another option.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: But these arenโt cheap. I mean youโre going to be spending โ I mean Infusionsoft is a $2000 starter fee.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: But if youโre already โ but this โ thatโs good because, you know, if youโre not making $10,000 a month from AWeber, you know, you donโt โ in my โ in my opinion, you donโt have any business to go to Infusionsoft because Infusionsoft, youโre โ itโs none of just that $2,000 starter fee but it is a bit complicated and you would want to hire a coach.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: And youโre going to spend $10,000 on a coach.
Navid: Yeah, definitely. But you mentioned here with your book as well, was that also repurpose content you had from all the amazing content you put out on your blog? Or was that new content that you put out there?
Antonio: Well, the books on Amazon were all – itโs fresh content but oftentimes what I say is Iโve said it before.
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: I mean with the way Iโm โ I mean if you really want, you could probably spend 24 hours – I mean an hour a day for a month and read through all of my articles, watch my videos. I mean at the point, you would probably only get through 5%, maybe 10% of my โ
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆcontent. But I mean there are many people who never buy anything from me and come away and build amazing wardrobes, start dressing better, see great results. Iโm happy for that because โ but there are other people whose time is very valuable. Or if they want to own the content or they want to have unique access to me. And those people are willing to pay a little bit more.
And because of all the people that Iโve given away some great solid content, you โ that one, theyโve already tasted it, they know the quality of it. And other times, I get people to come in and just buy my products because they somehow want to pay me back. I mean literally, you know, they want to just give back –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆto โ because theyโve gotten so much.
Navid: Yeah, thatโs very nice [Laughter] when those people come around for sure. But have you ever offer kind of consulting or coaching as well? Or was it just the online products since you kind of focus on the audience so you ask them questions so they came back and they really wanted this kind of specific products you create for them?
Antonio: You know, I actually have a coaching program right now but itโs a business coaching program and I just closed it up. So, I do do things like that like. However, I try to stay away from coaching. And one of the reasons I do is coaching just is not scalable to be honest.
Navid: Yeah,
Antonio: Itโs something that โ I mean if youโre just starting off like what weโre doing with High Speed Low Drag. John Dumas, me and Tom, we are offering coaching with this. It is not scalable. We know that. However, we wanted to test the business model. We wanted to prove it. And so, the guys are paying 3 grand for 6 months access.
Actually, itโs a deal. I mean some of the stuff that theyโre getting access to, the number of people and the meetings and everything. However, it is something that weโre trying to be very attuned to the fact that itโs not scalable and to move away from that. However, if youโre just starting off, you know, coaching maybe something that โ it does your trading time for dollars and –
Navid: Yeah.
Antonio: โฆthatโs the one thing I donโt like about coaching.
Navid: Yeah. No, I completely agree. And I mean that again, $3,000 is like more premium positioning there as well. But if youโre starting, you need to listen in to your audience. You need to get to know them. And you already got that since you built that from the very beginning and ask them questions. And like recorded your video. So, itโs much easier now to really create to have this perfect products for your audience obviously as you grow.
So, if we can move along kind of to the last question here, I mean Iโm really enjoying the content so far youโre sharing with my audience here. But if you are building an online presence and personal brand from scratch, what like three to five things would you consider provide the most ROI for your time and money? You know, thatโs the biggest struggle I have from the start like the very โ like the time and money was the biggest issue for me having a job and so on.
Antonio: Alright. Well, I would say that, you know, you need to have a home base. So, spend your time. Spend a bit of money. And get a good-looking website. I think when I looked at the interview with you, Navid, it was something I look at your website, I complemented you on it. You have a beautiful online presence.
It gives you a lot of credibility versus someone that I mean literally has an incredibly ugly website, it just really takes away from the overall feel in brand. So, have a home base where you can send traffic, where you can send people, where you can collect and build your audience and send people to.
The next thing is you want to think how can you start to build the audience. One way is to go after other peopleโs audiences. And the best way to do that is to figure out how can you add value to this person. Many of us are out here, you know, we donโt have big staffs. Weโre always looking for talented people. So, youโre going to be in many times bartering. Youโre going to be giving away your best, maybe some of your best content, your best, you know, some time. Youโre going to be helping them solve a problem.
And what this person is going to do is, you know, itโs going to enact the law of reciprocity. Theyโre going to want to give back to you. So, theyโre going to shamelessly promote you. Theyโre going to get you in front of their audience. And if youโve got a unique position that โ letโs say, you know, one thing I really need is a Facebook โ I would say Facebook image creator because I have right now a person that creates thumbnails for me but I find that certain thumbnails and certain images do really, really well on Facebook. Other ones donโt.
And to me there were certain things that go in to a great Facebook image. And it would just make sense like โ so if somebody came in and say, โHey, you know, I actuallyโฆโ especially, you know, Iโm not so much Facebook focus and I would use those images for other places, but if someone sees that, โHey, youโve got a hundred thousand fans on Facebook and I really think we could help you โ you know, I come in โ Iโve already created these two images for you. What do you think? I mean could you use them?โ
And theyโre simply โ you created these thumbnails that are promoting their own best articles. And so, youโve already shown value. Youโve shown what you can do. Youโve given this to them. And I mean that right there, youโre not asking for anything from them. Youโre simply wanting to give these and add value. You show a unique talent for something theyโre very weak on. And then itโs like, โOh, these are great, you know. Thank you. Iโd love to use this.โ
You know, itโs like, โOh, well, let me know โ you know, I may โ you know, Iโm building a company like this. I would love to be able to create these for you. And you know, just as long as you can give me some honest feedback.โ And thatโs, you know, a unique angle. Youโre building yourself up and youโre building your presence. And theyโre going to be, you know, your biggest advocate eventually if youโre able to show how โ you know, itโs like, โOkay, well, you notice how when these ones I created for you got 25 shares, got, you know, 3,000 likes. Well, one thing you โ we need to actually send them to your website.โ
And you can start to show other ways to add value. And then they โ when they actually pay you for the service, theyโre getting a known โ theyโre getting a โ they know theyโre going to get a return on the investment. Versus most of the time when we hire people or we look to partner with somebody, itโs a risk. So, youโre eliminating the risk. So, that would be, you know, I know that was only two things but I think that if they did those two things, they could really knock it out the park.
Navid: Yeah, I think thatโs fantastic final words here as well. So, Antonio, where can people connect more with you? Where would you like people to go and check out –
Antonio: Just go to –
Navid: โฆmore of your amazing work?
Antonio: โฆjust go to Real Men Real Style. Go to my contact form. I have a little bit of fun with it. And check out, you know, how Iโve set up some barriers. So, only those that are serious can reach out to me. And Navid, I think that would be probably the best place for them to start.
Navid: A bit challenge audience like if anything they should do right now like โ what do you think?
Antonio: You know, I always just say take action. And thatโs something again and again I see people fall in to this analysis paralysis.
I mean if this is โ if youโve listened to a hundred podcasts but if you havenโt been taking action and getting things done, you really need to stop. Take it fast from information and just make things happen.
Navid: Yeah, thatโs great. So, thank you so much, Antonio for coming on here, sharing so much valuable information.
Antonio: Youโre welcome, Navid. Take care. Bye-bye.
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