How can I be more attractive?
I've lost count of the number of times I've been asked this question.
You might think the answer lies in the color of your clothes. Or your body language.
Truth is… it's more nuanced than that.
In today's article, I'm going to show you 5 life-changing investments you can make to make yourself more attractive.
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Are you ready to make 5 life changing investments to be more attractive? Let's get into it…
#1. Be More Attractive: Upgrade Your Social Circle
If you want to be more attractive, you need to surround yourself with people who are going to push you further and cause you to raise your game. When you surround yourself with positive people – people who are striving to achieve the most they can out of life – their energy will rub off on you. You'll feel better for it and you'll start to radiate positive energy.
It doesn't matter how strong and confident you are; if you're constantly around negative people, you're going to pick up some of that negativity. You'll develop their behavior traits and their mannerisms – it's something that happens naturally over time and there isn't anything you can do about it (other than leave and seek positive energy!).
You become the average of the people you surround yourself with.
I'm not suggesting you cut people out completely – just recognize you need to limit your time with them in order to achieve what you want in life. Think of this is as investment – strive to find other positive people and put yourself in situations and locations where you'll find those people you want to surround yourself with.
Once you begin radiating positivity, you'll find that opportunities come your way. Remember: positivity attracts positivity.
#2. What Is Sapping Your Confidence?
It's time to bite the bullet. Ask yourself what is sapping your confidence. We've all got that one thing we need to fix in order to be more attractive. For some men, it's how they dress. For others, it's their teeth. And a lot of men feel self conscious about their hair (or lack of it).
Men reach out to me on a daily basis and I find that many are worried about their thinning hair. I always offer the same advice – shave it all off or seek hair restoration treatment.
Shaving your hair takes balls – I get it. But you may be surprised at the results. According to a study by Albert Mannes, of the University of Pennsylvania's prestigious Wharton business school, bald men or men with shaved heads are perceived to be dominant, taller and stronger.
When it comes to thinning hair, you need to make a decision. Get your hair back or get rid of it and if you're going to get rid of it – get rid of it all, including the sides! Don't leave it and look like you're desperately trying to claw back your youth, because no woman has ever found a comb-over attractive!
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#3. Spend Less. Buy Better.
Most men buy clothes without putting a lot of thought into it. They see a pair of trousers, think “I like that color” and buy them. That's it! Perhaps they associate the brand with quality or perhaps the trousers are cheap. Either way, this approach is flawed. By going down this route, you are wasting your money on clothes that are less than ideal for your purpose.
So how do you break this cycle? You learn The Style Theory Of Value.
Yes, I've created an equation you can use before making a purchase. Use this to ensure you're buying clothing you will get the most value from. By loving every item of clothing you put on your body, you'll feel great and you'll naturally become more attractive!
Spend less. Buy better. And check out 10 Items Every Gentleman Needs In His Wardrobe.
#4. Go After The Body YOU Want
Sounds obvious… but bare with me. You need to go after the body YOU want, not what other people tell you you want. If you go to the gym, you'll see posters of guys with ripped abs and huge biceps and they're usually accompanied by captions like “do you want to be more attractive?”
Ask yourself, is that what YOU really want? I made this mistake when I started off at the gym; I was aiming for a body like I saw on the advertisements.
So I took a step back and thought about what I really wanted. And in my case the answer was mobility. I had a bad back and my training program was adding to my problems so I spoke with my personal coach and made sure our objectives were aligned. We centered my training around stretching and exercises designed to aid mobility and I now feel 1000 times better!
Remember that what you put into your mouth is as important as any exercise you do. Eating well is the key to making sure you feel great all day long.
#5. Hire A Coach
I know, you're probably thinking, how will this help me be more attractive? Let me explain: It's all about upping your game.
Think about something you're good at. Maybe it's painting or singing… it can be anything. Then hire a coach to make you even better. Why? Because you're a good painter or singer. You're not great. And you're not World Class.
People are attracted to the best of the best – those who are world class because they're at the top of their game in their chosen area. Another example is a soccer player. They start off good but with world class coaching, over time they can become World Class, and then they play for a huge team, play for their country and become infinitely attractive to people. People pay to see them play – men want to be them and women want to be with them.
Go from good to great to awesome to World Class and strive to the the absolute best – whatever your skill set!
Being attractive isn't just about what you wear or how you hold yourself. There are many ways you can improve your attractiveness. Start with these 5 ways and start seeing results in no time. Do you have any tips? I want to hear from you! Let me know in the YouTube comments.
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